[when it's put like that, sure, that makes sense. he's well aware that he tends to bulldoze straight into people to try and help them even when they don't want it (elsa. absolutely elsa.), but it is important that they have a choice.]

Then...all we can do is really ask them what they want us to do. I've asked before and it sounded like they're focused on helping us instead, but maybe something will change later.